Old Villagers
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IVAN BLUNDEN
Hello there. My name is Ivan Blunden and I was born in Halnaker in 1936 and am now interested in family history, the article on Harry Hamlin caught my eye as Harry - or uncle Harry as I knew him - was married to Ellen (nee Pennicott) and they were my mothers aunt and uncle by way of Ellen being the youngest sister of Grandad (William) Pennicott. During my family history research I have found that Harry and Ellen had four daughters Frances, Gladys, Grace and Doris who are my mother's first cousins. I also found marriages for all four daughters but not any children. So when I saw your article was by Anna Slipper - a daughter of one of those girls - I realised that Anna and myself are of the same generation and I would like to contact her if possible. Is there any way perhaps you know how this can be done, if you are able to contact Anna could you pass on my email address so that we can get to know one another, my email address is :- ivan952@btinternet.com. I do hope you can help and get two cousins in touch, Regards, Ivan Blunden.
GILES BUGAILISKIS
Based on a letter my
mother wrote me 30 years ago, the following is all that I know about my
first years in England. Any additional help, history or descriptions
would fill in the gaps, and will certainly help me find my roots. I look
forward to the day when I can return and experience the geography of my
early childhood.
My parents arrived in the UK in 1947 from the British Zone in Germany as
Displaced Persons from Lithuania. They were sent to an immigrant
facility in the Chichester area that was temporary housing for a number
of DPs. My father got hired by a cucumber farmer, Mr. Stone. Our first
house as a family was on a hill "Hat Hill" where we stayed in a stone
house that was divided into two dwelling units. My father was living
there when my mother brought me home at 7 weeks in February 1948. My
mother does not remember where the hospital and "rest home" were but
that they were located in Surrey. My parents asked Mr. Stone for a
better housing and in September 1948 we moved into Singleton. Our
address was: 5C Singleton Chichester Sussex. We lived in an old stucco
house, one half that faced a well was occupied by a kind elderly lady,
the other half facing the street was were we stayed. We had a large
garden where we grew vegetables and flowers. The kitchen window faced a
school yard where children played. Here my sister was born. My father
worked for Mr. Stone until the fall of 1950. We then moved to the
Cocking area near Midhurst where our address was C365 Cocking Midhurst,
Sussex. We lived there for nine months where my father worked for a
prize-winning dairy farmer named Mr. S.E. Leighton. We left for Canada
July1, 1951. A neighbour, Mr. Lambert , was kind enough to drive us to
Southampton for our journey to Canada. Thank you very much.
gbugailiskis@winnipeg.ca
17/10/07
LAURIE COOK
I cannot profess to be an old villager, but I do believe my mother was born in East Dean. Her name was Lilian Johnson - born March 1st 1902 and registered at Westhampnett. She lived with her mother Annie (known as Nance) with her mothers parents at 27 East Dean along with at least two sisters and a brother of Annie. Annie of course being my Grandmother, who later married Arthur "Oakey" Elms in 1907 and they lived in Arundel until they both passed away in the 1950's. My siblings (four sisters) and myself spent many happy holidays after the war years staying with our mothers Aunt and Uncle at No 27. They were George and Georgena White (known as Ena). George was the village baker at the back of the shop on the road to Singleton. Aunt Ena had a massive goitre which was a bit off putting to us children, but she was a lovely lady and led us on many expeditions up onto Court Hill, and the Clump. In those days the sun always seemed to shine and it stayed light until 10 o'clock at night. Double Summertime I suppose. Of an evening we climbed over the stile to their back garden and into the meadow and there Ena instructed us in the finer points of Cricket. She was a real mean bowler and I personally had the bruises to prove it. But Oh! Happy days.
I have just spent a very happy half an hour reading through the entries to " Old Villagers" and came across so many names I remember from my childhood.... the Wests, Crouchers, Kennetts, the Humphreys, et al. I particularly remember Chrissy West, and Puffin Lillywhite who were about our age and befriended us. My wife and I visit East Dean from time to time and two summers ago when in 'The Star & Garter' I enquired after both of these ladies to be told Puffin had been in about half an hour before we arrived. I never did get to make her acquaintance, and she probably would not remember me!!
I felt I must put my thoughts into print as East Dean and its sister villages meant so much to us children then, just after the 39-45 War, and still do now - 60 years later. All my descendents, that I know of, on both sides of the family came from Sussex. I believe the Johnsons were in East Dean back in the 1700's. So you can see why I ramble on a bit. Please forgive me, its just that I am very proud of being "Silly Sussex".
Kind regards to everyone in "The Valley" keep the articles coming and if anyone out there remembers the Johnsons or the Whites I might read about them one day in a later article.
Laurie Cook, Lindfield, West Sussex. laurieandjoy.lindfield@uwclub.net
RESPONSE: This is a response to the article by Laurie Cook in the November 2007 Printed Edition of The Valley Diary from Albert West (westal@clear.net.nz). He was interested in hearing about Johnsons and Whites. As a child I can remember Tommy Johnson, the father of Ena. Ena lived with her brother, Charlie, [both single at that time] at No 27 East Dean, with her father. Charlie was the foreman on the roads for the East Dean district. My first memories of George White, who later married Ena, are of a motor cycle accident he had with Bob Croucher at the top of the Parson's Brow. George, minus one of his ears, was being carried up to Wilson’s house when I came along: [an inquisitive younster]. I also remember Ena's goitre. I remember George as the baker. He made superb cottage loaves, currant buns, plum heavies and flaky jam puffs. George used to pull a two wheeled covered cart around the village once or twice a week delivering bread, buns etc. He also came round in a van driven by old Mr Bryant, delivering bread and orders which Kitty Bryant had collected on Mondays. As an ardent cyclist she came on a bike. She did extended tours on Sundays. After the Bryants sold the shop, George went to work for the Forestry Commission, planting trees. This was a common occupation for many after the forests were felled. I made the last faggots for bread baking for the local shop after the Bryants sold it about 1951. After this I made a few for Blundens of Halnaker and some for a shop in Northgate, Chichester. My father once made 14,000 in one season, a phenomenal amount, but indicative of the quantity then used generally.
THE
REED FAMILY
Celia Turner
I wonder if anyone knows of the relatives of the Reeds? William Reed was born in 1864 in East Marden. In 1890 he married my Great Aunt Jane (known to my mother as Jennie) Dobson Kidd in Q4 1890. William was an agricultural worker, Jane had trained as a teacher. According to the 1891 Census they were living in a cottage 3 away from Stone Rock Cottage in Chilgrove. By 1901 he was a carter on the farm at Agriculture ? House. There were 3 children Frances (1894), Reginald John (1900) and Wilfred (3 months).
I understand from my mother that they then lived on the main road in West Dean, opposite the pub. I have a jury summons for my grandmother dated 1941 which was forwarded from her address in London to "169 West Dean" where she was staying with her sister-in-law Jennie and William, so they were still there during the War. I can't find out when Jennie or William died, or anything about the boys. I do know that Frances worked in the post office in London and stayed with my mother and grandmother during World War I in Stratford, Essex. Can't find out when Frances died either.
My husband and I visited West Dean a few years ago and took a photo of a cottage, opposite the pub, for my mother to look at and she confirmed we had the right one. Since researching the Kidd family I have found out a lot of things that my mother never knew about, or she got wrong, i.e. she said Jennie's husband's name was Wilfred (probably referred to as Wil) and certainly didn't know about Frances' two brothers. I understand that Jennie was the teacher at the school in West Dean, presumably the one just down the road from the above mentioned cottages. Jennie was born in Ryton, Co. Durham in 1862, her father was Septimus Kidd, coalminer, and mother Isabella Dobson (his second wife), she died in a railway accident in Radstock, Somerset in1876 - a year after Septimus's death. They had moved from Ryton to Radstock in 1861/62 and there were 6 children in all from that marriage (mother only knew about 3 of them!), and 2 from the first marriage (didn't know about that either). The orphaned children were dispersed around Radstock and my Grandfather John James joined Victoria's Navy in 1886 until 1900, when he left and he too ended up working in the GPO in London as a messenger. He met my Grandmother, who originated from Hungerford, and lived in Stratford until his untimely death when she moved to Forest Gate.
Does anyone know of relatives of William, Reginald or Wilfred. Frances died a spinster. Please contact me on: celia.turner@btopenworld.com
STEPHEN HIBBERD APPEAL
I
was wondering if anyone can help me find out were this photo was taken
in Singleton around 1900. [Click on it for a larger version.] I
know it's poor quality but you can make out the brickwork and well with
bucket. In this picture there is Helen/Ellen Crane but not sure who the
little boy is. According to the census Helen lived two cottages down
from the grocers shop not towards the Horse and Groom but the other way.
Does any one have any idea if this cottage still exists or have any
information on the Crane family at this time. Thanks for any help. You
can email Stephen at
steve@origin3d.co.uk.
PETE CROUCHER
April 2nd 1915 - April 29th 2007
Pete
Croucher, who died on April 29th aged 92, will be remembered by everyone
who knew him for his sweet nature, his kindness, his enthusiasm for life
and his interest in other people.
A Valley man through and through, Pete grew up in Huntsman’s Cottage in
Charlton and moved to no. 43 on his marriage in 1939 to Doris Goff.
He often talked of his happy childhood in the Valley between the wars.
Of school at Singleton, of walks in the hills and woods, tree-climbing,
playing football, and of what he called ‘larks with the boys’; the
regular Sunday outings when a group of Valley lads would take their
sandwiches and cycle down to the sea at Bracklesham for a glorious
unsupervised day of swimming and picnicking.
Pete enjoyed life. He
loved his work at the Charlton saw-mill, particularly the war years,
when he drove lorry-loads of timber all over the country. He spent a
happy ten years before retirement on the dust-carts, going up and down
the Valley and over to Chilgrove, making friends everywhere and having
what he called the time of his life. He loved gardening, and he
was a passionate supporter of Pompey football club. He and Doris
had no children of their own, but took a proud interest in the doings of
Doris’ large family and their offspring.
Pete’s reminiscences of the good old days in the Valley almost always
seemed to include drinking. He had his first drink in the Fox on his
sixteenth birthday, April 2nd 1931 and his last at the same bar just
seventy-five years later in 2006. He would have loved to see the
group of Valley friends who gathered to raise a glass to him in the Fox
on the day after his funeral, when some good drinking time was spent in
trying to work out just how many pints of his beloved bottled Guinness
he must have downed in there in his lifetime.
Pete never went abroad, he never travelled in an aeroplane, he turned
down a chance to buy his own house and he never took the cruise he
sometimes talked about. But when he turned ninety, I heard him say
‘I’ve had a wonderful life, and if I died tomorrow, I wouldn’t have
wanted anything different.’
He was the best and kindest of neighbours and a dear friend. We
shall all miss him.
Nicola Braban
CHARLIE PRATT
(1915-2007)
END OF PRATT SINGLETON DYNASTY
Charlie Pratt, who has passed away aged 91, spent most of his life in Singleton. He was born at Rose Cottage, Singleton on 25 May 1915, one of three brothers. The Pratt family had lived in the village from the Victorian era. Charlie was educated at Singleton School (now The Old School) before progressing to Midhurst Grammar. As a young man, Charlie assisted his parents running the Horse & Groom pub in Singleton. He established a reputation as a formidable darts player winning various competitions including a national tournament. Charlie also enjoyed a successful career with Singleton Builders where he was involved in much of the development work which took place within the village during the nineteen fifties, sixties and seventies. Following retirement, Charlie, a true country soul, enjoyed tending to his allotment and following his sporting interests which included horseracing, football and cricket. He was the last member of the Pratt family, spanning three centuries, living in Singleton. Charlie died on 18 March 2007.
In Loving Memory of Rosemary Joan Scott
Back in December 2006 the ladies of the
sewing group to which Rosemary belonged decided to hold a memorial sale
by finished the many items which had partly been completed by Rosemary,
together with their own work. This group had for many years supported
Rosemary as she raised money for Macmillan Nurse. I would like to
personally say a big thank you to them and everyone who supported us on
the day. It was very special for me as I managed to have all my children
Paula, Susan and Matthew there on the day. This event raised £450 so
once again a big thank you.
Sorry its taken so long to write this article.
Submitted by Malcolm Scott on 20/03/07
JOY
DEANS
1910 - 2007
Following
the death of Joy Deans, wife of Desmond and mother of Carol and Fiona,
we take this opportunity to remember her as we knew her during her life
in Singleton. She was very involved in Desmond’s local vetinary
practices as animal nurse (!) where she showed great understanding and
compassion for both the animals and their owners. Joy was a very
artistic and gifted flower arranger which she used to great effect both
in local shows and for the church. Some of her happiest times were spent
working in her garden and walking her dogs on the Downs.
Joy was President of Singleton & East Dean WI for six years and a member
for many more. She always showed enthusiasm and interest in WI
activities and provided beautiful flower arrangements for all our
events. Joy always enjoyed her life in Singleton and was glad to make
her contributuion to any local events. In her 37 years here she made
many friends, all of whom will miss her greatly.
MEMORIES OF EAST DEAN SCHOOL
Ruth Flint (nee West)
On passing by the Village
Hall and seeing the work being carried out, I recalled to a worker some
of my memories of my days at school there before it was closed. I
remember the walk to school when the Beech Trees had shed their leaves -
the joy of scuffing shoes through the dry leaves and hearing the crisp
sounds.
I recall the Infants class (known as The Little Room) and Miss Smith our
teacher. The steps up to the classroom seemed so steep. The small beech
chairs with the rounded top rail and the dowelled back. (I particularly
remember coming off the school bus from Secondary School at Chichester
later on after the school closed and seeing the chairs being taken round
the back of the school and being burned. I asked if I could have one and
was told by the woman cleaner “no”!) We had an open fire in the
classroom and a metal guard around it, but the teacher used to stand in
front of it and lift her skirt to warm herself! I do remember some of
the children daring one another to go to the right, towards the door,
which lead to the Big Room, because there it was said you could see her
long pink knickers! No doubt the children did not appreciate the fact
that she rode her bike from Fishbourne to East Dean to teach - so she
must have felt cold! The bucket toilets were outside round the back of
the school and most of the school children were used to these at home,
but quite a venture out the back when you were allowed to go and the
fear of asking - especially in the middle of a lesson. Nowhere to wash
your hands that I can remember. I think we did wash our hands before
lunch - in cold water in an enamelled bowl with carbolic soap. Going
into the Big Room, the Juniors - the mystery beyond the door between
classrooms. Miss Holland taught in the Big Room - she was also
Headteacher. What a marvel she was - the things she did for us. Being a
Church of England School naturally everything was based on Religion and
morals. I remember the Scripture lessons - lots of drawing of Disciples
etc. We were taken up to the church sometimes for a service in the week
- the Vicar was Reverend Miller. I remember having to kneel on rough
hassocks in the pews - which seemed to a small child so dark - and
boring. (None of this modern stuff allowing toys and freedom to get
loose in the Aisle!) I remember the wonderful pleasure of Mothering
Sunday - we had our service and for a few pennies we each had a bunch of
cultured Violets - they were beautiful! Art featured quite a lot and the
paint had to be mixed up. The desks were metal framed and some double
and some single - with inkwell at the top and a place for the dip pen.
The Ink powder was stored in the wooden Manger (which was used for the
Christmas Nativity play.) It had to be mixed up. I also recall using a
slate sometimes. We had needlework and wool spinning and weaving and a
few English and Maths lessons. History and Geography. Nature walks were
wonderful! But the Allotments were quite a thing. We used to march down
the village past the pond, the garage, and ours were the ones on the
left at the tapering end of the Triangle of allotments. On a hot day (on
our return journey) Miss Holland would stop at the shop and buy Lemonade
for us and let us drink it outside her house. I remember trying to peer
into her water butt and loosing my glasses in it - she reminded me of it
years later! We did Country Dancing - sometimes in the playground, or in
bad weather or on other occasions inside in the classroom. The dust used
to rise in the air off the wide dusty floorboards as we all danced up
and back down the classroom - enough to make one cough! There used to be
a box full of second, third or fourth hand Plimsolls for us to wear for
sport or dancing(?). They used to be put in a bowl of Dettol sometimes
and washed. Playtime was skipping or tag games and running around in the
playground with the flint walls would not be allowed in today’s schools.
We had a Flag Pole to the left of the school up in the corner - and
ribbons were attached to it for Maypole dancing practice. For the Queens
Coronation celebrations - a Fete was held in the meadow to the back left
of the school and a Maypole was erected. We had to dance to the village.
I remember the fear of going wrong and messing up the pattern made by
the ribbons! Then came Christmas and the climax of the year - the
Nativity Play. Boxes of stored items were unpacked and strings were put
across the classroom and we unravelled thin strips of tin foil to drape
over the string. I think this marked the edge of the stage area. A
wooden frame was placed in front of the cupboards and I think blankets
were placed around to make a stable - the crib was placed in the middle.
I remember on one occasion my doll was loaned to be the baby Jesus. Miss
Holland spent days boiling up the White Muslin on the big metal coke
stove which was halfway along the classroom wall - it had a big Iron
Fire Guard around it - and the washing was hung around it to dry. The
Blue bag dip used and the Blue robes sometimes washed. Out of the boxes
came Robes for Mary, Elizabeth (I was Elizabeth one year), White Muslin
round the face and Blue robe and headdress and the Angel Gabriel - white
Muslin and white tunic and Tinsel for the head. Shepherds in brown robes
and brown blanket type material and the Kings and the little Angels from
the infant’s class. There was a big build up to Christmas with making of
things for the Nativity Play - rehearsing and singing. As I said, what a
wonderful person Miss Holland was. On top of all the production and
washing of garments etc., she would be behind the piano playing and yet
still watching and prompting the children. We also had a Christmas Tree
each year with a present for each child in the school which was paid for
by Mrs Hughes who lived opposite the Garage.
And that was not half of it! We were so lucky to have had such a
wonderful childhood. The school closed after I left to go to Secondary
school and my sister Eileen and my cousin Janet were amongst a few who
finished their education at Singleton school.
My father, Sidney West and my Mother, Elsie May (nee Lillywhite) both
attended East Dean School. They recalled that there were children who
were so poor that they did not have shoes. I believe Miss Belham was the
Headteacher in those days. My mothers father, Harold Lillywhite, also
went to East Dean School but it was said that his parents Frank
Lillywhite & Sarah (nee Glover) had to pay a Shilling for his education.
Frank Lillywhite, my great grandfather, who was born at East Dean,
received Free Education at Molecombe Goodwood with the Duke of
Richmond’s children.
Ah - Happy Days! (as Miss Holland said to me many times in later years).
flintb_r@hotmail.com
BRAVE
UNCLE BILLY'S STORY
Diane Snow
Very few people have heard of
the most decorated small ship of WWII, HMS Li Wo or her crew and their
brave final battle during their escape from Singapore. Luckily the ship
owners had the only surviving officer’s record for me to work from and
with many enquiries I found the archives of the few survivors.
Click here to
read the whole article about our family's brave Uncle Billy in the war.
Submitted by Diane Snow
PHIL NORRELL
1922 - 2006
Phil
Norrell, who died on October 19th aged 84 was a remarkable man: full of
energy and vitality. Though he leaves behind an outstanding reputation
for service to the community, he was essentially and outdoor man. Even
during his advanced years he could be found every week on Levin Down
with his group of friends known affectionately as “The Crumblies”
contributing to the protection and maintenance of this important area of
his beloved downland.
He was born in Singleton in 1922 the son of George and Henrietta (née
Elliott) at Ivy Cottage next to the old Post Office. In 1926 the family
moved to number 2, Rose Cottage in Singleton where Phil lived for most
of the next 58 years. With his wife Marjorie he moved next door to
Bramley Cottage in 1984.
He attended Singleton Cof E school. Aged eleven, he passed the
scholarship exam which took him to Chichester High School, where,
despite the normal school leaving age at that time being fourteen, he
stayed on until at the age of sixteen he achieved his Oxford School
Certificate. On leaving school he got a job with the Railways, an
association that, apart from war service in the RAF, was to continue for
the rest of his working life.
At the start of the war, serving in the Sussex Home Guard, his work at
Singleton Station involved being responsible for the wagon trains which
were loaded with ammunition and hidden from prying German bombers in the
tunnels under Cucumber Farm and at Cocking. After enlisting in the RAF
in March 1941 he spent the rest of the war loading bombers with
ammunition. On demobilisation Phil resumed his work with the Railways
(soon to be nationalised and become British Rail) at Singleton, Selham
and for over 30 years at Chichester. He became a familiar face at
Chichester Station, always putting service to the customer first and
having the time to help and support his colleagues.
But it is for his service to the village community that he will best be
remembered. Following the example of his grandfather Harry Norrell, Phil
served as a Parish Councillor for 45 years. Phil always made sure the
Parish Council was up to date with planning and other developments
affecting the County and Chichester District. He also for many years
represented Singleton’s interests on the West Sussex Executive Committee
of Parish Councils.
Two other local landmarks benefited from his enthusiasm: the Village
Hall and the Church. He was Secretary and Treasurer to the Hall for 45
years, and continued as Treasurer until this year. He served on the
Parochial Church Council for the same number of years for much of that
time as Churchwarden. Only one Churchwarden - during the period 1872 to
1900 - surpassed Phil’s 20 years service in the Church’s 1000 year
history. Phil even found time to be the village Tree Warden.
For sixty years Phil was ably and lovingly supported by Marjorie whom he
married on February 2nd 1946. Together they brought up two sons, Andrew
and Clive, of whom he was so proud. They can't recall a time that their
dad lost his temper. As a father he was fun, fair and firm. The sons
followed him first to Singleton School and then to Chichester High
School. Phil was for a number of years a Singleton School Governor.
As if his total commitment to Village activities was not enough, Phil
was appointed a Magistrate to the Chichester Bench, where he sat for
over 19 years, as a much loved and respected member relied upon for his
common sense.
Phil regularly joined in the annual 25 mile Charity March with the Royal
Military Police, raising a considerable sum for charity, and completed
the Annual Walk covering the entire length of the South Downs Way. He
was also an active member and supporter of the Royal British Legion,
serving as secretary of the Singleton and District Branch for 16 years.
There have been many tributes to Phil. He was loyal and supportive. Ever
ready quietly to help a neighbour. A true gentleman and friend. More
than one tribute referred to Phil as ‘Mr Singleton’, and one member of
the community wrote that the heart had gone out of the village. There
was a phrase often used to sum up people’s efforts during World War II:
“We just got on with it”. That could also have been Phil’s own motto
during his life: he just got on with it.
GEORGE CLANCY
Ian Clancy
According to family history, my Grandfather, George Clancy, lived in Singleton during the World Wars, ran or owned a Horse Racing Stable, and raced frequently at Goodwood and other race courses. I am looking for any information about the family and their links with Singleton. George Clancy has two sons, Ernest William and Arthur. Any information will be appreciated. ian.clancy@tiscali.co.uk.
MISSING PHOTOS
Diane Snow
In
last months edition of the Valley Diary, Jan Elliott was trying to trace
the Groombridge descendants as she had found a photograph of a member of
that family. I however am searching for missing photos that were lent to
the Horse & Groom during Sparky's time there by my family. The photos
were very important to the family as they are of The Ancient Order of
Foresters celebrating my Grandfather (Frank Pilcher) winning of a
national shield which had earlier in the day been paraded through the
streets of Chichester. The photos were taken in the back room of the pub
and had been displayed in the saloon bar in the months prior to its
closure. My father (Frederick Pilcher) is also in these photos and we
only have one photo of them together. Does anyone know what happened to
these photos? Contact Diane at
VenusianSnow@aol.com.
Have attached a photo of Grandad and Gran Annie when first married 1904
(click on it for a larger version). [Scroll down the page for Diane's
previous submission about the Pilcher Family.]
THOMAS FREDERICK READ
Victoria Read (Great Granddaughter)
In the course of my family tree research I have found that my great grandfather (and his son) were Gamekeepers on the West Dean Estate - according to the 1901 census of West Dean St Andrews parish. The information I have is: Thomas (Frederick) READ born c.1864 in Chichester working as Gamekeeper in 1901 on the West Dean Estate. His son was down as Horace (actual name Thomas Horace) born 1886 Staffs working as Gamekeeper (presumably under his father). Other children within the household - Olive Blanche, Daisy Francis and Frank Eustace. Thomas' mother Harriet was widowed and living with them, she was born c.1818 Aldingbourne. Thomas was a widower (the wife having died in childbirth) and the family moved from Gloucestershire. Harriett joined them from the Portsea area. It is possible Harriett died in the West Dean area. According to the 1901 census the family are recorded as living in WD woods Cottages, Chilgrove (which I have found was incorporated into the West Dean Estate). Any information regarding this family would be gratefully received. Many thanks for your help. Victoria Read, Darlington - Co Durham, vik.read3@ntlworld.com
HARRY
(HENRY) HAMLIN
Anna Slipper (Granddaughter)
I have just happened to
come across the old
photos of East Dean, Charlton and Singleton on your web site. Two of
the pictures: numbers 25 and 49 ‘The Old Post Office, Singleton’ were
the home of my maternal grandparents. My grandfather Harry (Henry)
Hamlin was the postmaster there from c. 1903 to about 1950. I’m not too
sure when he gave up the Post Office. The Post Office was moved to the
little shop - that is no longer there - where the cricket ground now is.
My mother and her three sisters were all born there from 1903 to 1913. I
am enclosing a photos of my grandparents out side of the Post Office,
which was of course also there home. Click on the photo for its original
size.
DESMOND DEANS
John Deans (Ralph Deans' son)
I am living in West
Australia and am writing to ask if anyone has any information about my
Uncle, Desmond Deans, who is/was a retired vet and lived for 30 odd
years (I believe) in the village of Singleton. I would love to know if
he's still alive and if so, get his address. I'd like to make contact as
I will be over in the summer. You can email me with any information at
johndeans@westnet.com.au.
Many thanks in advance.
AUSTRALIANS SEEK FAMILY TIES
John Richards
Hello there. We live in
Australia and would like to find out a bit about our family background
in and around the Lavant Valley. William Richards was christened at
Singleton on 30th August 1807. His parents, John Richards and Mary
Money, were married Singleton on 25th May 1797. His Grandparents, Henry
Richards and Ann Banks were married in Westhampnett on 15th April 1762.
William may be my Great-grandfather arriving in Australia in 1836 on the
“Recovery”. We’d love to hear from any descendants of John and Henry.
Please get in touch so we can discover family ties.
John Richards, Scarborough, Queensland, Australia. email:
diandjr131@hotmail.com
Jan & Rob Kellett
As a follow up to Jan &
Rob Kellet's entry (see below) we have the following...
Here's an old photo of the
Charlton Football Team
of 1926 with my Dad, James Stuart Mackintosh seated in the front row
with one of his beloved 'woodies' in his mouth. I wonder if anyone can
identify others from the Photo (which is not of very good quality, I'm
sorry to say). You may recall our previous contact re. search for my
Great Grandmother's maiden name which we now know to be Mary o'Doud
(O'Dowd). Have been in contact with the
Singleton
Forum regarding the identity of the 'Goose Girl' as my Grandmother
was Amy Louise Lambert (nee Davis). Also have Jupp, Collins, Wild,
Jenner, Mitchell, Button and Reeves links in the family.
Peter Marland
Born March 9th 1928 - Died April 30th 2005 age 77
Ellen Marland
During his Time as a Reporter for ITN Peter interviewed many famous people including Churchill, Peter Sellers, Sophia Loren, Bob Hope, had audience with the Pope and Arch Bishop Makarios. He covered major stories like the Dam burst in Frejus, Earthquake in Agadir and just regular stories like New Slums for Old in London. He was Commercial & Fashion photographer. He had works in various publications including a Vogue cover and a back cover for Playboy. He spent 5 years in Athens and spoke fluent Greek. He worked for the Athens Daily Post as a regular columnist reporting on the goings on in Athens in a column entitled Looking around with Peter Marland. He taught school in Athens at the American School and also taught in Jerusalem. He travelled extensively visiting over 30 countries. He loved to meet knew people and experience new cultures. He worked for a time at the McCain Leprosarium in Changmai Thailand a period in his life which he found very fascinating and spiritually rewarding.
Some of his early English Acting credits were in the Army Game, The Avengers (Baby Bouncers) and Happy Go Lovely. He was taught to Twist by Chubby Checkers and loved to Dance. In his Acting Career he worked in Hollywood as a member of the Screen Actors Guild doing Bonanza, Star Trek, It Takes a Thief, Mission Impossible, Wild Wild West, Hallmark Hall of Fame “The File on Devlin” and Dreams of Glass. He did too many commercials to list but one of which was as the Dandruff spy for Head and Shoulders Shampoo.
He spent many years in Portland Oregon and was a pioneer in Talk Radio. His programme on KEX Radio reached audiences from Alaska to Los Angeles and as far west as Hawaii. His PhD (from Cambridge) in Psychology gave him a grounding in counselling and advice but more than that his wide range of life experience meant he was able to communicate with people at all levels. On Portland Television he worked on the Jerry Lewis Telethon for Muscular Dystrophy and Hosted the Portland Section of the Easter Seals Telethon where he worked with Peter Faulk (Columbo) raising money for handicapped children. Whilst in Oregon he was a Notary Public for the State of Oregon. He learned to fly in the states and had his own Cessna aircraft. Loving flying he went hot air ballooning, Road in the Goodyear Blimp, flew in Helicopters and did a fascinating news report with the American military going out over the Pacific Ocean in search for the Russian Fleet which were encroaching on the 3 mile limit in American fishing Territory.
His Father and Mother, Harold & Gertrude Marland lived in Singleton for many years. In 1975 his father passed away and in 1979 he moved from Oregon in America to England to live for a short time in Singleton. Upon his return to England he joined Equity and appeared in many television productions including Boon, Emmerdale Farm, Stay Lucky, Chancer. He was in the very first episode of Soldier Soldier as a Catholic Priest. He was in PD James Devices and Desires, House of Cards, The Chief and the Statesman. There were many others extra parts over the years.
Peter and his wife Ellen moved to Lincoln. Here he and Ellen had the Abbey Tackle Plus Fishing Shop and the Shopping Basket on Monks Road. Last August they celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary. They raised their family, Simon Sarah and Tim in Metheringham Fen and had a life full of adventure. Always up for a new idea, he was just the kind of guy you cold listen to for a lifetime. He had a passion for converting old buildings and made a family home out of the Old School at Tanvats … renamed the Old School Ranch. He converted a Tin House in Dunston, a cottage on the Green in Dunston and The Green Tree Inn Public house became his final home. Whilst at the Old School Ranch he made rehearsal rooms and a recording studio for young musicians. His own passion was the Double Bass and Drums. He used to carry his Conga Drums in the back of the car so that he could sit in with any Jazz band that he happened to come across. He managed many Rock bands in the area and touched many young lives. Some of the Bands included Gun Metal Blue, Tayma, Sweet Teaze and Borderline. He was a have a go guy. Helping to promote and found the Bikers Nights down at the Metheringham Heath Quarry. He had a wonderful collection of over 100 belt buckles from around the world which the echo came out to photograph. Peter put together a book of poetry about some of his life experiences which was for a time on sale in Lincoln at one of the local book shops.
Peter Marland –
Peter Marland-Jones or PMJ as he was known in his acting career. Peter
was a man of many talents … some known, some unknown…too many to mention
but he was above all Loved by all who knew him and whose lives he
touched. He was one of life’s characters. To all is family he was Magic.
Alfred Marriott
Andrew Greer
To anyone living in and
around the East Dean/Singleton area during 1939-1940!! An Appeal! I am
researching family history and am keen to trace anyone with knowledge of
Alfred Marriott who frequented the area at that time. He is known to
have used the Star and Garter pub and was friendly with the Landlord (Mr
Bushby) and his Family. I have no idea if he was a serviceman or a
'local' man. Any information greatly recieved. Please email me at:
findam06@yahoo.co.uk or phone
on 01243 778488. Many thanks for the help!
Christopher Fry
John Gale, East Dean
Lisel and I of course were
aware of Christopher from an early age. We had been taken to see his
wonderful play ‘The Lady's not for Burning’ as teenagers, but it was to
be many years before we met him. It was when we came to the village of
East Dean that he became a friend. He was the most wonderful neighbour
and member of the community and enchanted everyone who came in contact
with him. His door was always open and there was a constant stream of
village friends as well as the good the great and the famous who came to
visit him. I suppose it was after we arranged his 85th party at Max and
Eden's lovely home that we became really close. Sunday lunches with
Christopher and his great friend Roger Eland became a regular
occurrence. Christopher was famous locally for his dislike of green
vegetables and it challenged Lisel's culinary skills to find a vegetable
he might like. After one lunch he wrote a little poem.
No thought of treasure troves or holy grails,
My dream is having luncheon with the Gales,
You bring me pleasure by the plateful,
I spend my days in being grateful
For more than I can make a list of
God bless you both with love from Christoph
Five years ago Christopher wrote a beautiful poem for our 50th
Anniversary
It was like standing on a narrow shore
(That was how it had seemed to me)
To look back across the shaping sea
Which had brought us there,
Shadow and sunlight on the foam-backed waves
As the tides caried us
Or we breasted the turn of the tides
Not knowing the destination
So this is where we have come, we said
And how golden the sand is,
How very golden the sand is.
Christopher the heartache will eventually fade, the passing will be
gentle but one thing Time will never quite erase is our memories. None
of us who are here this afternoon will forget your quality; your warm
and loving heart; your prodigious generosity and all your many
kindnesses. I hope, dear Christopher, that after a short while there
will be no further sorrow, no more tears. We will only remember all the
years of fun and laughter and joy that we owe to you.
Jan & Rob Kellett
I
am the grand daughter of William Lambert, Gamekeeper of Drove Park
Cottages. I believe I am related to the West family from West Dean. My
mother was Amy Louise Lambert (born 1911). Her father was William
Lambert (born c.1863) and mother Amy Louisa Davis (born c.1877).
William’s father was William Lambert (born c.1826) and mother Mary
O’dowd (born c.1833). Family tradition has this surname but am unsable
to confirm this. William was a soldier and appears to have married in
Limerick, Ireland where the first son, James was born. My grandmother
was Amy Louise Davis. Her father was John Davis (born c.1929). My
great-grandmother was Celia Davis (born c.1835). Her birth name was Jupp.
John Davis was a Charcoal Burner of Fernhurst as it appears was Celia’s
father, Thomas Jupp (born c.1803). My dad worked at Charlton sawmill
with my mum’s brothers Dick and Frank Lambert. I know I am related to
Vera West of Droke Lane in East Dean. I would love to hear from anyone
related to me. We live in Morrinsville, new Zealand, right in the heart
of ‘Dairy Country’, having moved here about 3 years ago to retire after
living in the Auckland area since December 1979. Originally, we
emigrated to Adelaide, South Australia, in January 1971 and subsequently
moved to NZ where my mother and brother were living. We have been back
to the UK three times and did visit the Lavant Valley in January 1988.
Please email us at rjkellett@xtra.co.nz. We’d love to hear from you.
Jan has now made contact with relatives in the Valley... This from Janet
Holt... Just a follow up to Jan Kellets e-mail really! It is a very
small world indeed and it was very exciting to contact Jan and compare
some of our family findings! As Jan told you, my great grandfather and
her grandfather were brothers - so we'll just be Italian and call
ourselves cousins without worrying too much about the generations! My
great grandfather James Lambert kept the Star and Garter and
my grandmother was born there in 1901 on the day that Queen Victoria was
brought back from Osborn House for burial, so my grandmother was named
after the new Queen, Alexandra, wife of Edward VII The same week a boy
was born to the blacksmith working at the forge in East Dean at the
time, Mr Oakley, so he was named Edward, so East Dean had it's own royal
couple! Even though my grandmother was born at the pub, she never went
into the bar - at all not even when the pub was closed - until her 80th
birthday,
when she reluctantly agreed to come in for a meal with her family! How
times have changed! As an aside, copies of the book - Why Did They Call
Me Archibald? are still available from the Open Air Museum shop.
And from Jan again... As I said in the last email, your article re: The
Lamberts' and the elusive Maiden name of Mary Lambert (O'Dowd?) produced
a wonderful result in that I was contacted by a cousin, Janet
(completely unknown to me at that point) directly related to Mary
through her son James Lambert who married Ada Wild and their daughter
Alexandra Marjorie Lambert who married Archibald Long and became Janet's
Grandparents. Arch Long, of course, became a very prominent local
identity and Janet very kindly sent a little book she and Richard
Pailthorpe had written on his life which was a real joy to me. James and
Ada Lambert were running the Star and Garter Pub in Butchers Lane, East
Dean. Their Daughter was born there in 1901 (she was listed as 2mths old
on the 1901 Census). James was son of William Lambert, career soldier
and was born in Ireland and was brother of my Grandfather, William, who
was a gamekeeper on the Goodwood Estate and not always in good odour
with the villagers as you can see by reading the little book about Arch
Long (Why did they call me Archibald?). My search continues, exciting to
go along with the wanderings of Charcoal Burners between Sussex, Kent,
Hampshire and Middlesex. Be transported to Lampeter in Cardiganshire,
Wales to a Jones family who married an Overton, who was son of William
James and Ann Overton (nee Davis). Ann was the sister of John Davis, my
Maternal Great Grandfather. And so the wheel continues to turn, my joy
is to have been able to trace a little of where it's been and, who
knows, how far back I will be able to go.
Michael S McCarthy
My
name is Michel McCarthy. I have been researching my family history
for the past two years. I am Researching Boxall from Singleton. My
grandfather was Arthur James Boxall. He was born in Singleton to
Edward Boxall and Emily Linter. Other members of this family were
Sidney, George, Albert, Emily, Annie and Ada. My Grandfather, Arthur
James, married an auxiliary nurse who he met in Brighton. Her name
was Mabel Beatrice Pipe and came from Framlington in Suffolk. They
moved to Lower Morden in Surrey where their children were Born. My
mother was Jean Boxall, their eldest daughter. Her brothers and
sisters were Royston, Richard, Monica, Anthony, Audrey and Derek
(who passed away as an infant). I travelled to singleton on 6th
September 2005 to find my Great Grandfathers grave which I found in
the newer cemetery in Singleton with the help of a very nice lady
who lived near the church. I wish to thank this lady for her
kindness when we were there. Also to Mr Austin who suggested we sent
an e-mail to your site and for his help. If any of the villagers
remember these Boxalls, I would love to hear from them or receive
any information they can give me on my relatives or even pictures of
themselves with any of them. I look forward to hearing from anyone
who knew my relatives. You can email me by
clicking here.
Follow-Up
Many thanks for putting the item in The Valley Diary. Since it was
published I have had contact from two cousins who have or are
helping with the Boxall photo. If there are any other Boxalls in
West Dean I would love to hear from them and hopefully I will be
able to add more names to the family tree. I have added a picture of
Moses Osborn (above, right) born in 1854 in East Dean. Moses married
Charlotte Linter born 1848 on September 10th 1881 in Westhampnet.
Dr Christopher Fry 1907 – 2005
A Gentleman of this Parish
A personal view from Max Davies, Chairman of East Dean
Parish Council, July 2005
Christopher
and his wife, Phil came to live in East Dean on 19th July 1967. It
is a date his family will not forget, because his eldest grandchild
was born on the same day. The Frys chose East Dean because their
great friends Robert and Jo Gittings, also distinguished literary
figures already lived here in Dodds Cottage opposite the then
village shop. Christopher and Phyl lived in The Toft set back in a
pretty garden behind the shop. Tragically for Christopher, Phyl died
suddenly in 1987, a loss he took some time to come to terms with.
One of my earliest recollections of Christopher was in, I think,
1974 when he handed out the 1st Prize for a village 'It's a
Knockout' competition which took place on Pond Green (and around the
village) on New Year's Day. One part of the competition was towing
one of your team across the pond on a tractor inner tyre, and my
wife Eden fell in twice. The first prize, a lavatory seat, was won
by the Shaws team and I remember Christopher made a very witty
speech handing it to them. He and Phyl had more sense than to take
part, but it was typical that he was there at every event.
Christopher was very involved in our village life. He was till
recently a regular at All Saints Church and on Sundays we would have
the treat of hearing this great literary man reading the lesson. He
was also for some years chairman of the Village Hall Committee which
has now one of the largest committees in our community. Many of the
early minutes are written in his beautiful script handwriting. Last
year he helped by writing a few words on village life for our
promotional brochure raising funds for the refurbishment of the
village hall.
Together with his close theatrical friends John and Lisel Gale, he
has helped raise funds for both the church and the village hall with
poetry readings and lectures. They were always a sell-out. One in
1990 was called 'In Praise of Country Life' and had an impressive
cast of Christopher, Robert Gittings, Dorothy Tutin, Tony Britton,
and John and Lisel. The motive for these evenings was as much the
pleasure of the performance as the valuable funds raised.
Another time I recall was his 85th birthday party in our Coach House
on 18th December 1992 arranged by John and Lisel and ourselves as a
surprise for him. On that wild winter’s night a stunning galaxy of
stars, as well as all his family, turned out to wish him happy
birthday and he could not have been more thrilled. Then, when he was
90 and feted in all sorts of important places, he loved the village
celebration and I still have a copy of the remarks I made in handing
him the painting of his garden by East Dean artist Paul Adams.
“Christopher you are now the senior citizen in this village – quite
a remarkable achievement for someone who drinks whisky and has
always denied himself greens, fresh or otherwise, for the simple
reason he can't stand them! Christopher it's a pleasure to know you,
and an even greater pleasure to have you living amongst us, our
celebrated playwright, poet, translator, man of letters, who is
passionately fond of running water, frogs and I think most of all
your garden.”
Christopher spent a great deal of time in his garden and had
recently added a water feature which was surrounded by frogs, real
and ornamental. He acquired a dilapidated summer house on a
turntable which he was told had belonged at one time to Jerome K.
Jerome, and with the expertise of Gordon Stevens, had it restored.
He loved it and even furnished it with a small bookcase containing
some of Jerome's books. Ernie (Smiler) Miles was his helper in the
garden and I can hear him, Smiler, now saying to me, “He do love the
beauty of it all”. Smiler was six months Christopher's junior, and
they became good friends with a great respect for each other,
although I doubt if Smiler ever read any of Christopher's work.
Ian and Julie Stevens were his neighbours, and Julie, as his taxi
driver, became most involved in his life of lectures and drama
festivals, taking him all over the country for many years. Many
other neighbours were also part of his life. His door was always
open and they would call in to help in the house and with food, to
discuss the Times crossword or to take a drink of whisky with him.
Every week to the very end of his life he also received eminent
visitors from the arts and the media, but any villager was just as
welcome through his door. He made no distinction in his warmth and
enthusiasm for his fellow beings.
I think Christopher's last outing was to our Coach House, and this
time on his 97th birthday, which happened to coincide with the night
of our Christmas Party – 18th December 2004. He was already a little
frail and we were not at all sure he would make it, but John and
Lisel eased him along and of course he loved it, staying much longer
than anyone expected. With a glass of whisky in his hand he sat and
chatted to the many people who wanted to talk to him. He was such a
popular member of the community he loved and the village loved him
back. God Bless you Christopher. You did love the beauty of it all,
and we shall miss you.
The Pilcher Family
From Diane Snow
Annie
Cowdray was born during a snowstorm on 7th March 1880 in ‘Hilltop
Cottages’ which were situated on the hill behind Cucumber Farm. Her
mother’s family had lived in the Lavant Valley for over a hundred
years, mostly in West and East Dean. There were eleven children. All
attended Singleton School which was opposite the Partridge Inn. In
1904 Annie married Frank Pilcher. Frank was born 1st May 1881 in
Portsea. His father Henry (a former Metropolitan Policeman) sadly
dying a few months later. They set up home in the Gatehouse at West
Dean. Both worked for the James family. Frank also did the accounts
for two shops in Chichester and began The Ancient Order Of Foresters
here in Sussex which provided an early form of death insurance.
He
was presented with a huge shield from the Order Of Ancient Foresters
for his work in bringing insurance to people, which was paraded
through the streets of Chichester. My Father Frederick, thier only
surviving child, was born on 18th January 1909. In 1924 Frank
purchased the old coach house and land from the Pratt family. He
bricked up the banks of the river to avert erosion and built ‘Sunnyhurst’
in his field, building two bridges for access. Frank became a much
loved Parish councillor and was the Chairman for several years.
He
also continued to sing in St Andrews choir at West Dean. Frederick
served with The Royal Military Police, mostly in India. As a top
marksman, he guarded the then Prime Minister Nehru and his family,
including Indira who herself became Prime Minster Ghandi. Also, in
Egypt, he met Anwar Sedat. I remember he suffered with Malaria and
had several relapses. Frederick married Lillian Ailles in 1949. My
Mother Lillian was the eldest of thirteen children. Her father,
James, a retired Captain of the Royal Horse Artillery, rented
‘Littlewoods Farm’. Lillian was disabled after catching Sandfly
fever in Malta where she grew up. Amazingly she had identical twins
Pamela and Theresa in 1949 and I made a surprise entry 1956. I was
always held captivated by all my gran’s and parent’s stories. Dad
had a pet mongoose in India that actually saved his life and Mum had
a pet Spider Monkey in Malta. But best of all, Dad knew where the
morels grew and the best place for hazelnuts. Sadly dad was the last
Pilcher. Grandad (Frank) died when I was three in 1959. Annie lived
to be Ninety and died in 1970. My parents died twenty years ago, Dad
in 1985 and Mum in 1986. They were amazing people - as parents
normally are. So here I sit probably the last of my family to live
here.
Elsie May West
Memories
of Maisie West - read by her daughter Ruth Flint at her funeral at
East Dean Church on 17th February 2005
Mum was an “Outdoor Girl”. She was born at Red copse in this parish.
Her Father Harold Lillywhite was a Gamekeeper for Goodwood Estate at
that time so she spent a lot of time in the woods and countryside.
Mum once recalled that when Grandad was ill she and Granny
Lillywhite had to go one night and bring home the rabbits from the
traps. She recalled that she and Granny found Deep Coomb very eerie
that night. They brought home over 100 rabbits. As a young girl at
East Dean School she was voted May Queen. She thought it was the
only time the school had a May Queen. After school Mum had to go
into Service. She hated Housework! Something that stayed with her
throughout her life, although on Monday (washday) she would go to
The Croft to help granny, to chop the firewood, light the boiler and
help with the wash – pumping up the water from the tank, or getting
some from the well, washing in the tin baths, then the blue dip and
finally the mangle! She never complained. In the war Mum was in the
Land Army. When she was based at Ashling she recalled a Cart Horse
called Captain – he was notoriously dangerous and he trapped her
against a wall one day. The men had to come with Pitchforks to move
him. She said she often drove him from Ashling out to Tangmere and
collected Turnips and had to deliver them to the railway station.
When Grandad Lillywhite was the Village Carpenter and Builder, Mum
helped him in his building business. She helped with the bookwork
and the work. She travelled to Town with him in his Green Van (on
some occasions we were in the back) but the van would frequently
“stall at the Cross” and the Policeman would have to hold up the
traffic while she got out with the starting handle. She said “she
used to feel very embarrassed”. We recall just a few of the events
that Mum helped Grandad with:- She painted most of the Big Houses in
the village – she was excellent at that. Mum would go onto a roof to
replace tiles or mix cement – she could do many building jobs. She
helped with the conversion of The Thatched Cottage in Newhouse Lane
from a pair of houses to the whole house of today. Also with the
conversion of the pair of houses at Seven Points on the Trundle,
where an enormous backbone skeleton was discovered whilst the
cesspool was dug. It was reckoned to be possibly a dinosaur – “the
risk of work being held up by other people digging caused it to be
kept quiet”. We went with Mum and Grandad when he had work to do on
the Cottages at Redcopse. They were being prepared to be demolished.
They were the place of Mums birth. We also went with them when the
pair of cottages in Stone Dell at Goodwood had to be pulled down.
When this Church had the Tower releaded many years ago Grandad
Lillywhite had the job. He was elderly and had a bad heart. Mum
followed behind him up the ladders in fear of him falling and when
he went over the parapet she decided that having come so far up she
would also go over into the Tower! She MUST be the only woman ever
to have done that! She was a very hard worker and helped on the farm
in the days of Harvest with the stooks of corn and the steam
thrashing machine. Mum and Dad did not have an easy time bringing us
up but were together “through the good and bad times”. She
loved and missed Dad so much and often said so - and what a
wonderful man he was. Having Nursed Dad with his stroke for over 4
years must have been quite an “eye opener” for Mum on the
subject of Stroke but in her illness she was still mischievous and
had her sense of humour with both the Nurses and us. When playing
her some of her favourite ballads the last few days of her life she
joined in and broke into song with “I’ll take you home again
Kathleen”. So today “we have come to bring Mum home” - to the place
where her heart has always been.
Jenny Forshaw
My grandfather
Frederick Wells Elliott was born in Charlton in 1890. He was the son
of Joseph and Frances Elliott. Fred had a sister - Annie - born 1884
and she had a son - Lewis Elliott born 1903. Lewis married Florence
Mitchell and they lived in Charlton all their lives. I remember
staying with Lewis and his family as a young girl, also visiting the
beach at Climping and walking up the Trundle. I have been
researching my Elliott family history for some time now and I am
hoping other visitors to this site might recall the Elliotts of
Charlton and share their memories.
If you'd like to email Jenny directly about her contribution contact
her here: jenrusty@msn.com
Update from
Jenny Forshaw...
My Grandfather was Frederick Wells Elliott and was born at 29
Charlton in 1890. He was the son of Joseph Elliott and Frances [nee
Croucher]. Frederick had a sister (Ann) who was born 1884 and she
had a son (Lewis Meredith Elliott) who was born in 1903 and daughter
(Rhoda) who was born in 1908. Rhoda married a Henry Osbourne and it
was her youngest son Douglas who has contacted me as a result of my
appeal on this website and in the Valley Diary. I then informed my
mother (daughter of Frederick) who was able to reminisce about the
old days. She remembers vividly the happy times spent down in
Charlton playing with the Osbourne children and was able to let me
have some old photographs. I then sent these on to Doug who was
thrilled to bits to have seen them. Some of the family he had never
seen before. We have been in touch with each other ever since and
have been exchanging our family history. I am hoping that eventually
it might lead to a family reunion one day. One other thing I'd like
to mention is that in Singleton Church there is a memorial for an
Alfred Elliott. Alfred was my Grandfather's brother and he died
during World War 1, on 7th July 1915. He is buried in Lijssenthoek
Military Cemetery in Belguim. I would also like to mention some
other family names which I hope might jog a few memories and
encourage people in the Lavant Valley to get in touch with me. They
are all connected with Charlton and surrounding area. The family
names are Boxall, Croucher, Phillips, Tapner and Wells. Please get
in touch if you have any memories you'd like to share. My email
address is jenrusty@msn.com. I
look forward to hearing from you.
David Henry Humphrey
1934 - 2005
Some words from
the Humphrey Family
David was born on 26th March 1934 at Walberton. He was the middle
son of triplets - Peter, David & John. When they were young they
attended the Baptist chapel in the village and all three came to a
personal faith in the lord when they were 17½ at a meeting in Bognor
held by the Evangelist, Tom Rees. At 18 they were called up for
National Service and joined the Royal Air Force. On demobiliasation
David and John attended Plumpton Agricultural College. On completion
of their course they came to East Dean to work on the farm of their
uncle, Ralph Humphrey. At the time, the farm had a milking herd of
Jersey cows and David delivered milk around the village. Later,
David and John went into partnership with their uncle. David married
Maureen in September 1959 and they set up home at No.34 East Dean
where their three sons, Stephen, Paul & Trevor were born. The
partnership later took over the tenancy of the farm at Hill Lands,
Chilgrove from the West Dean Estate and David & Maureen moved into
the Farm House there. Ralph Humphrey died in 1976; John and his
family moved to a farm on the Isle of Wight and David, Maureen and
their family moved back to East Dean to live at New House Farm.
David’s uncle had been the Pastor at the chapel from 1925 until 1976
and when John moved away David took over the Pastorate. He continued
to run the farm and also a contracting business and eventually his
sons, Stephen & Paul joined the farm were taken into partnership.
They purchased the Eartham flock of Southdown sheep and later David
became President of the Southdown Sheep Society. Their sheep have
been shown at many agricultural shows around the country including
Wales & Scotland and they have won many prizes. David joined the
Gideons International and he loved talking to people he met about
his faith. He gave away many Bibles and New Testaments even giving
them to patients in the hospital when he himself was a patient. He
suffered a serious heart attack in October 2000 and also had other
health problems. For over four years he gradually became weaker, but
he continued to faithfully witness for his lord and remained
cheerful and good humoured. His ‘home call’ came on Sunday 13th
February 2005. He will be sadly missed by his family, the fellowship
at the chapel and all who knew him.
Katherine Down
Katherine Down
would like to find out more about a relative who used to live at
East Dean. The person she is seeking is her Great Great Grandmother,
Miss Louisa Viveash. Katherine knows very little so far
except that she married her Great Great Grandfather when they were
both in their early 20's. His name was Charles Hayter. After
they married, they moved down to the Totton (Southampton) area. She
would be very grateful for any information and can be contacted by
email by clicking
here.
John Snoad
My
name is John Snoad and I am a retired engineer 71 yrs of age living
in West Yorkshire but born in London. I was evacuated at the
beginning of World War II and billeted with the Stay family at
Cucumber Farm. Being only 5yrs of age my memories are doubtless
faulty but nevertheless still vivid. I remember the old village, its
school and the village green, complete with pond where I collected
various items of life in a jam jar and more or less as shown in the
image bank on the valley’s website. I remember the Battle of
Britain, a crashed German aircraft on the farm and the farmer with
his shotgun, going to collect the pilot as he parachuted down into
the field beyond the garden. I remember the various Girl Guide
activities run at the farm, the American Army camp, which I visited
and was given mugs of heavily sugared tea in an officer's office!
But most of all, I have memories of what must have been the last of
old village life. Does anyone know what happened to the Stay family
and when they gave up the farm? This photograph of me was taken in
2002. Please feel free to email John at
johnsnoad@ls29.demon.co.uk if you’d like to respond.
Tim Simpkins
I first arrived in
East Dean back in 1975/6, my parents having bought a house on the
corner of Butchers Lane across the road from the Star and Garter.
The group of us that initially socialised together i.e. caught the
school bus and went along to parties in the village halls of East
Dean and West Dean mainly included in no particular order; from East
Dean... Dan and Jane O'Leary, Lyndon and Melvin Stride, Ruth and
Jamie Hutchinson, Peter and David Steel, Mel, Eric and Peter Long,
Peter West, Alan and Neil Stevens, the Humphries and the Holts...
from Charlton... Grant Lillywhite and Sarah Jeffries and from
Singleton... Janet Long, Stelio Long, Darren and Wayne Belton, Kevin
Saint, Duane and Sharon Heath. I hope I haven't offended too many
people by missing them out! For me, my time in the village is
remembered for a great many lifetime friendships which remain,
regardless of falling out of contact. My time out of school was
spent playing for East Dean football team, the Stool ball team,
playing badminton in the East Dean hall (those bloody beams, let!),
spending a lot of time roaming around the woods or running up and
down the road to Charlton. A day that particularly springs to mind
was a winters day when the school bus was running late. It had been
snowing and the kids from the top of the hill by the East Dean
church had started to wander down to us, as we all waited outside my
house. After a particularly good snowball fight had got a little out
of hand and everyone was now quite wet, we decided we weren't going
to school just as the bus came down the hill from Pilly Green
Lodges. Apparently, it had been so icy that the driver had been
stuck up the hill for some time. We gave him the good news and he
made off for his next pick up in Charlton. Someone ran in to phone
Grant or Sarah and told them not to get on the bus and again rang
someone at Singleton. We ended up having a great winter day with
everyone getting together to play in the snow. Surprisingly enough I
don't recall getting into any trouble for not going to school
either! I eventually left East Dean after a great party, culminating
with everyone falling out of the Star and Garter and making their
way over to fall into the pond in June 1995. After a whirlwind visit
(6 months) to Australia and New Zealand I returned to live with
family in Selsey but continued playing for East Dean. I finally
moved away from England in 1997 and have not been back. The land of
opportunity beckoned and I have lived in New Zealand (Auckland)
since then up until last March when I moved (for work reasons) to
Sydney (Australia). I work for a corporate media company as a
General Manager - a bit of a change as when I left England I was a
plumber! I now have a wife and two children (boy & girl). I'm
realistically not expecting to get back to England to live but would
love to visit one day soon.
Anyone who knows me and would like to catch up I would welcome an
email to
timsimpkins@yahoo.co.nz
Pat Saunders
Librarian, Pallant
House Gallery:
library@pallant.org.uk
St. Francis Cottage, Singleton: My earliest memory of Singleton was
in the Summer of 1957, and is amongst my earliest. Aunty Jessie
(wife of Major Trevor Weston) had two adjoining cottages (which
she’d purchased from the National Trust for about £100, in about
1952). She used the one known as The Shack and guests used the
adjoining St. Francis Cottage. There was just the one door upstairs,
which gave access between to two. In The Shack this door was in my
Aunt’s bedroom. My Mum, sister and I came to stay for a short
holiday. At the time my sister was about eighteen months old and was
still being pushed around in a pushchair. She also had German
Measles and was a bit irritable with it. There was one day when we
were travelling on one of the green Southdown buses. I think it was
somewhere near Funtington and we went past the radar station near
there. Mum sat with my sister and I sat behind with Aunty Jessie.
Having seen the masts of the radar station I wanted to know what
they were. Aunty Jessie said they were ‘stars'. At night when it got
dark they would send them up to the sky. Sometimes they banged their
heads together and that was when you heard a ‘bump in the night’.
1959 - We stayed at St. Francis Cottage for a second holiday in
late August early September for three weeks. It was part of a very
long hot summer that began in April and lasted in to October. We
went to the beaches at Climping or West Wittering a lot of the time
and drove there in a grey Studebaker that we had. The car was hot
even first thing in the morning. The only shade we could find was
that of an apple tree that was in the school playground on one side
of the two properties. Another car that I once went for a ride in
belonged to Mum and Aunty Jessie ’s friend Aunty Girlie [Grace
Rota]. It was black and probably an old Austin, Aunty Girlie
referred to it as her old jalopy. This was one day when it was
Market Day in Chichester. Mum stayed at home with my sister but I
was taken with Aunty Jessie and Aunty Girlie. I can’t remember much
about the market, just seeing a lot of things in a big warehouse for
the dead stock auction. When we got back I was told to wash my hands
and suddenly my sister realised I had been out somewhere so she was
a bit cross about that. So she insisted on washing her hands too.
There were mishaps that my sister had when she was small. On evening
when Aunty Jessie and Uncle Trevor had arrived after we’d stayed in
St. Francis Cottage for a week. We were in the kitchen of The Shack
and we’d been given glasses of squash. My sister bit the rim of hers
and it broke but luckily she didn’t cut herself. However we couldn’t
use glasses again after that and were given plastic beakers. When
Mum and her parents lived at Broadstairs in the 1920s; for part of
the summer Mum was sent to stay with Aunt Belle in Singleton. She
was the daughter-in-law of Grandpa Jarrett’s commercial neighbour,
Mr Falla the Ironmonger in the High Street, Mortlake. Belle had
married Myla and both were teachers who first lived in Sherbourne,
Dorset. Aunty Jessie used to be sent to spend summer holidays with
them long before the First World War started. Myla was a keen bird
watcher and passed on the hobby to Auntie Jessie. During the First
World War he was called up, then killed within two weeks of being at
the Front (Nov. 1916). One of Belle’s daughters was the above named
Aunty Girlie, the other was Myla (named after her father as he died
just before she was born) she had the nickname Babs. In the 1950s
she and her husband Joe Kendall had a farm in Surrey, which we
visited in 1959. Aunty Girlie and her husband Sydney (his family
lived in the Littlehampton area). They lived at a place called ‘Whitelands’.
Around 1960 they moved to a house in Broyle Road (opposite the
Barracks), Chichester. Then she had her aunt (Aunt Belle’s sister)
Liz living with them. In the 1920s, when Mum went to stay at
Singleton, Aunt Belle ran Singleton’s village school (near St.
Francis’ Cottage). She was helped by her daughters Girlie and Myla
acting as pupil teachers. The house that came with the school didn’t
come with ‘all mod cons’. There was no electricity, no running water
apart from the hand pump in the kitchen. There were oil lamps for
lighting and an earth closet out in the garden. Mum’s particular
memories of Singleton are of the horse racing at Goodwood. They
would walk up from Singleton to the Trundle. In those days the
Trundle didn’t have a fenced off enclosure. The racecourse actually
crossed the road and the horses would finish the race on the lower
slope of the Trundle. Being so open in that way, in between races it
was possible to walk down the course and past the Royal Box to see
King George and Queen Mary.